Gambling

I wonder if gambling is legal in Cambodia?

The 2005 edition of "Culture Shock! Cambodia" says it isn't.  It says that the reason there are many casinos near the Cambodia-Thai border is because gambling is illegal in Thailand but not Cambodia.  So the Thais who want to gamble cross the border into Cambodia, and hence poor some of their money into this country.

Last Friday's edition of the "Phnom Penh Post" however, says something to the contrary.  It mentions gambling as a past-time associated with the kick-boxing sport and other sporting past-times favoured by the Cambodians.  It says that Prime Minister Hun Sen has outlawed gambling, but it continues.

Perhaps gambling was legal in the past, but no longer legal now.  Perhaps certain types of gambling is illegal but not others.  I wonder what the real scoop is.

Priority

It was a little embarrassing to see a couple of Buddhist monks trying to get ahead of the queue while boarding AirAsia last Sunday.

AirAsia has a system running where passengers may choose to pay extra for the privilege of choosing their seats and for boarding earlier than everybody else.  It is not an unusual system on budget airlines.

These Buddhist monks did not pay for the privilege, but assumed that they would be given priority.  I do not know why.  Maybe they simply did not understand the announcement.  A few other people (ie. not Buddhist monks) had also similarly misunderstood.

Maybe it is the culture in Cambodia, which gives honour and priority to Buddhist monks, Prime Ministers, and other people of privilege and seniority.  Perhaps these monks were Cambodians who had enjoyed this privilege almost all their lives while in Cambodia, and simply did not think to behave differently while in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia.

I wonder if they were denied the privilege because they were in a different country?  I mean, would they have been given this privilege at a Cambodian airport?  Or does the culture of airports excempt them from the privilege they would have enjoyed in other parts of their home country?

Nevertheless, I do appreciate that it can be embarrassing, to have become so used to a particular culture, and be expected to behave differently while being in a different one.

Remembering the Dead

Many things in Cambodia remind people about death.

A school in Phnom Penh was converted to become a concentration camp when Pol Pot was in power.  Many died at this concentration camp.  This school has been converted to a museum to remind people of the atrocities of that era.

Tragic stories of the Khmer Rouge era are also recorded in text-books, tourist guides and other material.  It is hard to visit Cambodia without hearing something of this past.

The Chinese tradition of remembering ancestors is observed here since many Cambodians have Chinese ancestors.  This is why many visit the cemeteries during the April “Cheng Meng” season.

Some also have altars at their homes for worshipping their ancestors.

In the Khmer calendar, Pchum Ben in October is as important an event as Khmer New Year.  During Pchum Ben, people would bring rice sacrifices and money to the temples to feed the monks and honour their ancestors.

Suppressed anger

Somebody once asked: "how could a man like Pol Pot be so cruel to his own people?"

After some reading and talking to some people, here is the answer I have come to understand.

The Cambodians are really very gentle people.  The language, the culture, all leaves one to appear happy and peaceful.  Any negative emotions like anger, frustration and rage are kept hidden - ie. not to be revealed to one's neighbours.

However, this suppressed anger has a nasty side when it is let out.

Cambodians are also highly into violence.  Not in their everyday behaviour, mind you, but the television shows, dramas and comic books that they enjoy show their tendency towards this.  Usually, it is just watching violence as a form of entertainment.

When the suppressed anger was released through a man corrupted with power with a tendancy towards violence back in the days of the Pol Pot regime, disaster ignited for the country.

Note: this is an opinion formed from recent understanding of the Cambodian mindset.  I do not know how accurae my recent understanding is.  Nor do I really know what went on inside the mind of Pol Pot.

No faith in banks

I hear that many Cambodians do not trust banks.

Apparently, there was a time in the past when banks closed, and people were not able to withdraw their money before it happened.  Many people lost their savings as a consequence.

Maybe the lack of faith also has roots during the Khmer Rouge era.  When the red army took over the country, people did not have the chance to avail of their money or buy their way out before the persecution and hardship began.

However, many banks in the country today are foreign investments, and Cambodians need to use these banks as to facilitate business and trade among themselves and people in foreign lands.  Banks are also a way to protect one's savings from robbers.

A pretty delicate balance in faith, I think, since foreign banks may feel the need to close suddenly if they are not profitable enough in this country.  And with so many banks in business here, the competition for profit is pretty stiff.  Or so I think, anyway.

Shipping to Cambodia

I came to realise that I did not post what I learnt about shipping personal belongings to Cambodia when somebody asked me some questions about my experience.  Here is a snippet from our email conversation, sharing in case anybody else may also benefit from our experience:

 

Inquirer wrote:

Thank you so much for the information. Paying just a bit extra is ok as long as the shipments are safe an clear customs.  I just received and email from them and will wait again for their response.

Thank you again for being a blessing!


I wrote:

 

I remember that one needs to have at least 3 cubic meters worth of personal effects to make shipping through Mission Movers or an equivalent group worthwhile.  If what you have is less than this, then shipping through other methods could be safer than cheaper.

We got quotes from two such shippers before eventually settling on Mission Movers.  We chose MM because of their good reputation and their previous experience helping Christian missionaries.  I forgot if they were the cheaper of the two quotes or not.

After getting to Phnom Penh, we waited for a short time for the expected arrival date of our shipment.  It makes sense to get to Cambodia before your goods for the customs clearance purposes.  The Cambodian shipping agent that Mission Movers told us about met up with us to complete the paperwork on this end.  The customs broker needs a couple of declarations signed and stamped by ourselves and our "employer".  (The way it works over here is that official company documentation will have the company seal on a rubber stamp over the signer's signature.)  He also needed photocopies of my passport and entry stamp.

Our goods cleared about a week or so after the expected date.  The Cambodian agent organised the trucking and they brought everything to our doorstep.  Almost everything was intact - we had a casserole broken, but that was it.  We later learnt that the port is slow to clear goods because of the high volume that it needs to handle, but it concerned us a little initially, as we wondered why our stuff took a while to get to us, beyond the expected arrival time.



Inquirer wrote:

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> Were there any issues with customs or any surprise expenses?
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I wrote:

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> Please feel welcome to ask me for more details about this experience or other things that I found in the process.  God bless.
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Inquirer wrote:

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Synagogue

Through the help of the internet, we found a synagogue in Phnom Penh and visited it.  We learnt that:

• The rabbi was surprised to find a family of Gentiles looking for matzoh, so apparently, not many Gentiles use matzoh here;
• Matzoh is imported from Thailand;
• They will celebrate the Pesach here.  They say that it is open to all, but what they really mean is that all Jews in Cambodia are welcome.  If any of these Jews have foreign wives, then these wives are welcome also;
• The synagogue looks like a regular house on the outside.  Ie. besides the identification from business cards and the Internet, one would not know that it is a synagogue.

How interesting to experience this meeting with the Rabbi!